very nice life couple ham ko be un se sabaq sekhna chyaeee
benish
agreed…
maria
interesting…. they have become an example 4 others. i liked it……
only beauty is not sufficent in life………
noman
zbardast
shees
g it is just like a dream of any but not seen as practical.every want to lead its life as such story but it can read write or listen not accrue practically.May be it show really but in million of one
Azmat Ali Shah
Very nice and highly impressive.Simple beauty is nothing,the real thing is the inner core of an individual.A handsome man or a miss universe is a waste paper if they don’t have desirable quality.Hunchback of Notre Dame is a lovable and unforgetable character,we still remember due to admirable qualities he had.
Zunaira butt
aap k is coloumn k mutabiq married life ka sakoon wife par depend krta hai……. i agree. humaray haan jaisi tarbiet ki jaati hai….. biwi he sakoon banaye rukh sakti hai gher ka
babar
no doubt in it insan ki sirat nahi balka shaksiyat matter karti ha
Excellent sir, Mind blowing ways to spend an ideal Marriage life.
Aqeel Siddiqui
I learned from your Article the ugly wife has much much better qualities than the husband. So this husband actually wanted a good manager or governance for his house . Husband seems to be handsome and good earning only. What are his other good qualities and still others and he himself thinks, he is doing favor to his wife.
mehran shaukat
sir nice colum.kash is mulk ka har fard is aurt ki tara apna watan aur qawm ka sath isi tara mukhlis ho jaya to is mulk ko sudhrana ma 5 saal ki baya sirf 5 month laga aur har tarf khushian bikhar jay.aur puri duniya ma hamar moural buland ho jay ga .log log hum sa mutasar ho kar islam ma shamil ho jaya ga is tara duniya aur akhrat dono sanwar jaya ga.kash allah hum ma asa payar bada kar da amean
Muhammad Wasim
Awesome g,,,,,,Be careful to choose your Life Partner.
shahid
very well written sir, this is 100% true.
Rahat
Excellent Asusal 🙂
Great lesson for women.
sana
iss kay mutabaiq tu aik larki ko he ksi baat main na nahi kerni chahyay.tabhi uss ki married life kamyab ho sakti hai
imran khizar
kash k sab apny humsafer ki talsh yai soch ly kar karain
Shafqat Hayat
🙂 🙂 🙂
zaberdast Janab… Kya Touchy topic raise kiya hy…
Appreciating your Optimism!!!
Thats Awesome!!! ALLAH hum sab pe Fazal fermaye- aur acha Insan bnaye.(Aamin)
Huma
Very NyC…………..
Purity Of Living…………..
Wajid Malik
Very Nice…….Alaaaaaaaaaa
wishes
nice
Yasmin Shaukat
This is for all men who always go for looks , smartness and face beauty.
shumaila
yep very nice…actually i read diz on express newzpapr really reality of life..!!
assalamoalikum Javed Bhai,
thanks for another great column.
i hope you are as good as you write about yourself.
i have emailed you quite a few times and called as well.
once you picked my call and hung up only after 8 seconds. after that i find your numbers off.
i am a bit confused on this.
you say you check and reply your emails till 2am at night.
lots of your column are based on common peoples’ phone call or meeting.
please look at my email. i do not want money or any thing from you. i want to thank you for your effort. for giving words to my thoughts. for raising common peoples’ voice.
i just want your guidance about our way to understand things from Quran and sunnah.
Hope you read it and spare a few minutes for me.
i keep checking my email for your response.
Jazakallah.
Mohd Ayaz Taj Abad Swabi
Javed Sab A.A.
Javed sab zabardast bohath acha column lekha hay,humain es tharh ki column ke zarrorath hay.Allah say duwa hay keh ye addathain hawa ki biteyan apnayain tha keh har gher janath ban jaye Ameen.
Arsalan A Rahim
Likhne ya BOlne mein yeh bohat asan hai…..and i have following this same from the last 25 years i.e. all my life…..but what is the paradox that, i am forced to do what i cant…and i dont want too….
sher muhammad awan
Javaid sb mn kafi arsay se aap k column pehr raha hun, lakin ab mujhay saray column eik se lagtay hien, aap different subjects pe likhtay hain lakin andaz eik sa hi hai, jis se boriet huti hai
Dr Hamid Rafique
very wel said
sadia
great…..
But exceptions are always there.
one can find a beautiful blend of beauty,brain,and aadatain also.
Natasha.
It wsnt in the least good, while reading, i thought someone was trying to count the merits of a good servant. It didnt feel as if the man was talking about his wife. Ofcourse he would love such a wife, but the husband doesnt seem to deserve the love ov thye woman, baat to tab thi ke insaan aik dosrey ke aib bhi accept karey, sirf paisey deney se hussband ki responsibility khatam nahi ho jati.
Muhammad Abdullah Rizvi
Assalam o Aalaikum!
Javed bhai Allah ap ko Jazaye Khair day aur ap logon ki eslaah farmatay rahen Ameen!
mujhy sirf itna kehna hai k es colum main kuch ziada lamba lamba nahi chor dia ap ne? ap se sirf ye guzarish hai k ap ye colum aik bar khud dubara se parh len.
plzzz mind mat kijiyega commnets dety howy b darr lagta hai.
take care,
Allah Hafiz.
Sara Khan
assalamOalikum!
Likhte to ap hamesha he acha hain, lekin aj ye sukhi miyan biwi ka topic kese dimagh main agaya? kia ap sirf biwion se mukhatib hain ya mardoon se?
kia Pakistan main jalne wali har biwi bad-zuban hoti hai?
Ali Goraya
chaudhry sahib ………………..
Dr Qadeer Hussain (Republic of Ireland)
Ch Javed sahab, as you have very well mentioned about good face and bad habits, this reminds me two nice shairs,
یہ اور بات کہ وہ لب تھے پھول سے نازک
کوئی نہ سہ سکے لہجہ کرخت ایسا تھا
ذرا نہ موم ہوا پیار کی حرارت سے
چٹخ کے ٹوٹ گیا دل کا سخت ایسا تھا
Your column is so well thought and beautifully written,
it is hard to say anything further about it as a comment.
masaud shah
great….
nice one and i am totaly agree bcz i know such couple like this personally but here the wife was illetrate and the husband was an S.E.T and now principle.
masaud shah
great…..
you are right i am totaly agree with you bcz i know such couple personally.here the wife was illetrate and the husband was a senior teacher and now principal.
umar
waooo! God will bless them and u.
NB
Good one
raza
zaiqa tabdeel kia hey acha laga
Eid Muhammad
The complexation of man or woman does not matter, unity, love, sympty,faith, understanding matters.
The column does not really show the happy life. I think the woman and man has equal right. think if the woman does not swap the home once, what would be the reaction of the husband?
Life is the name of tollerance for both man and woman.
Ghulam Siddique Jattal
کاش ایسی بیوی کی طرح ہماری حکومت ہو عوام کو جب بجلی کی ضرورت ہو بٹن دباتے آ جاے کوُی بے روزگار درخواست دے تو
اس کو نوکری مل جاےُ گاڑی سے پیٹرول ختم ہو تو پیٹرول پمپ
سے مل جاےُ کویُ انصاف کے لےُ پکارے تو انصاف مل جاےُ
nasim
This is fiction not real hai na Javeed bhai aap liktay bohat khoob ho such ka guman honay lagta hai. Such couple don’t exist in real life.I think the couple r living not for each other.Life without little excitement in no life at all. I think most people will agree.
Ali Goraya
chaudhry sahib , asif zardari aap sameet sab anchor persons to sayasi adakar kehta hai . magar aap aur aap kay sahafi bahi kabi ghoor nahi kartay .kia aap loog sayasi adakar he hain ? ais kay muqabalay main general pervaiz musharaf ka rawia bohat behtar tha .agar woh akhar main badmashi na karta .zardari ka bas nahi chalta .agar aus kay bas main ho to zarooor sayasi adakaroon ko phanti laga deta .
your biggest fan ever! but now not in touch from 2 years as i am not in my country now a days, thanks for the webside
Sardar Muhammad Abbas
Javed Sb! I am simply proud of u because because we share the native area i.e. Lalamusa.I am ur regular reader n your column “Audateen” was superb.It was an eye opner for many people who run after beauty where as it becomes ugliness when we come across the real personalty inside that beauty.The real beaty is the innerself of a person which we normally don’t see.Most of the Love Marriages end only because of this fact n broken homes n families are becoming very common in our families.Actually we are heading
Sardar Muhammad Abbas
towards destruction as a society.People must follow good examples like u have given through ur column.We usually see outerself of a person but we don’t look into a person.We are inpired by outer personalty.This habbit of our has damaged us a lot as a nation as we couldn’t find our destination as a nation in more than sixty years.We could not have real democracy,good governance n peace in our country because we always chose wrong persons 4 the right thing where as we had to chose right persons 4 right thing
very gooooooooooood!
very nice life couple ham ko be un se sabaq sekhna chyaeee
agreed…
interesting…. they have become an example 4 others. i liked it……
only beauty is not sufficent in life………
zbardast
g it is just like a dream of any but not seen as practical.every want to lead its life as such story but it can read write or listen not accrue practically.May be it show really but in million of one
Very nice and highly impressive.Simple beauty is nothing,the real thing is the inner core of an individual.A handsome man or a miss universe is a waste paper if they don’t have desirable quality.Hunchback of Notre Dame is a lovable and unforgetable character,we still remember due to admirable qualities he had.
aap k is coloumn k mutabiq married life ka sakoon wife par depend krta hai……. i agree. humaray haan jaisi tarbiet ki jaati hai….. biwi he sakoon banaye rukh sakti hai gher ka
no doubt in it insan ki sirat nahi balka shaksiyat matter karti ha
EXCELLENT…….REALITY OF LIFE
nice
exellent no better way to be happy
Excellent sir, Mind blowing ways to spend an ideal Marriage life.
I learned from your Article the ugly wife has much much better qualities than the husband. So this husband actually wanted a good manager or governance for his house . Husband seems to be handsome and good earning only. What are his other good qualities and still others and he himself thinks, he is doing favor to his wife.
sir nice colum.kash is mulk ka har fard is aurt ki tara apna watan aur qawm ka sath isi tara mukhlis ho jaya to is mulk ko sudhrana ma 5 saal ki baya sirf 5 month laga aur har tarf khushian bikhar jay.aur puri duniya ma hamar moural buland ho jay ga .log log hum sa mutasar ho kar islam ma shamil ho jaya ga is tara duniya aur akhrat dono sanwar jaya ga.kash allah hum ma asa payar bada kar da amean
Awesome g,,,,,,Be careful to choose your Life Partner.
very well written sir, this is 100% true.
Excellent Asusal 🙂
Great lesson for women.
iss kay mutabaiq tu aik larki ko he ksi baat main na nahi kerni chahyay.tabhi uss ki married life kamyab ho sakti hai
kash k sab apny humsafer ki talsh yai soch ly kar karain
🙂 🙂 🙂
zaberdast Janab… Kya Touchy topic raise kiya hy…
Appreciating your Optimism!!!
Thats Awesome!!! ALLAH hum sab pe Fazal fermaye- aur acha Insan bnaye.(Aamin)
Very NyC…………..
Purity Of Living…………..
Very Nice…….Alaaaaaaaaaa
nice
This is for all men who always go for looks , smartness and face beauty.
yep very nice…actually i read diz on express newzpapr really reality of life..!!
agreed i am going to married……….
assalamoalikum Javed Bhai,
thanks for another great column.
i hope you are as good as you write about yourself.
i have emailed you quite a few times and called as well.
once you picked my call and hung up only after 8 seconds. after that i find your numbers off.
i am a bit confused on this.
you say you check and reply your emails till 2am at night.
lots of your column are based on common peoples’ phone call or meeting.
please look at my email. i do not want money or any thing from you. i want to thank you for your effort. for giving words to my thoughts. for raising common peoples’ voice.
i just want your guidance about our way to understand things from Quran and sunnah.
Hope you read it and spare a few minutes for me.
i keep checking my email for your response.
Jazakallah.
Javed Sab A.A.
Javed sab zabardast bohath acha column lekha hay,humain es tharh ki column ke zarrorath hay.Allah say duwa hay keh ye addathain hawa ki biteyan apnayain tha keh har gher janath ban jaye Ameen.
Likhne ya BOlne mein yeh bohat asan hai…..and i have following this same from the last 25 years i.e. all my life…..but what is the paradox that, i am forced to do what i cant…and i dont want too….
Javaid sb mn kafi arsay se aap k column pehr raha hun, lakin ab mujhay saray column eik se lagtay hien, aap different subjects pe likhtay hain lakin andaz eik sa hi hai, jis se boriet huti hai
very wel said
great…..
But exceptions are always there.
one can find a beautiful blend of beauty,brain,and aadatain also.
It wsnt in the least good, while reading, i thought someone was trying to count the merits of a good servant. It didnt feel as if the man was talking about his wife. Ofcourse he would love such a wife, but the husband doesnt seem to deserve the love ov thye woman, baat to tab thi ke insaan aik dosrey ke aib bhi accept karey, sirf paisey deney se hussband ki responsibility khatam nahi ho jati.
Assalam o Aalaikum!
Javed bhai Allah ap ko Jazaye Khair day aur ap logon ki eslaah farmatay rahen Ameen!
mujhy sirf itna kehna hai k es colum main kuch ziada lamba lamba nahi chor dia ap ne? ap se sirf ye guzarish hai k ap ye colum aik bar khud dubara se parh len.
plzzz mind mat kijiyega commnets dety howy b darr lagta hai.
take care,
Allah Hafiz.
assalamOalikum!
Likhte to ap hamesha he acha hain, lekin aj ye sukhi miyan biwi ka topic kese dimagh main agaya? kia ap sirf biwion se mukhatib hain ya mardoon se?
kia Pakistan main jalne wali har biwi bad-zuban hoti hai?
chaudhry sahib ………………..
Ch Javed sahab, as you have very well mentioned about good face and bad habits, this reminds me two nice shairs,
یہ اور بات کہ وہ لب تھے پھول سے نازک
کوئی نہ سہ سکے لہجہ کرخت ایسا تھا
ذرا نہ موم ہوا پیار کی حرارت سے
چٹخ کے ٹوٹ گیا دل کا سخت ایسا تھا
Your column is so well thought and beautifully written,
it is hard to say anything further about it as a comment.
great….
nice one and i am totaly agree bcz i know such couple like this personally but here the wife was illetrate and the husband was an S.E.T and now principle.
great…..
you are right i am totaly agree with you bcz i know such couple personally.here the wife was illetrate and the husband was a senior teacher and now principal.
waooo! God will bless them and u.
Good one
zaiqa tabdeel kia hey acha laga
The complexation of man or woman does not matter, unity, love, sympty,faith, understanding matters.
The column does not really show the happy life. I think the woman and man has equal right. think if the woman does not swap the home once, what would be the reaction of the husband?
Life is the name of tollerance for both man and woman.
کاش ایسی بیوی کی طرح ہماری حکومت ہو عوام کو جب بجلی کی ضرورت ہو بٹن دباتے آ جاے کوُی بے روزگار درخواست دے تو
اس کو نوکری مل جاےُ گاڑی سے پیٹرول ختم ہو تو پیٹرول پمپ
سے مل جاےُ کویُ انصاف کے لےُ پکارے تو انصاف مل جاےُ
This is fiction not real hai na Javeed bhai aap liktay bohat khoob ho such ka guman honay lagta hai. Such couple don’t exist in real life.I think the couple r living not for each other.Life without little excitement in no life at all. I think most people will agree.
chaudhry sahib , asif zardari aap sameet sab anchor persons to sayasi adakar kehta hai . magar aap aur aap kay sahafi bahi kabi ghoor nahi kartay .kia aap loog sayasi adakar he hain ? ais kay muqabalay main general pervaiz musharaf ka rawia bohat behtar tha .agar woh akhar main badmashi na karta .zardari ka bas nahi chalta .agar aus kay bas main ho to zarooor sayasi adakaroon ko phanti laga deta .
your biggest fan ever! but now not in touch from 2 years as i am not in my country now a days, thanks for the webside
Javed Sb! I am simply proud of u because because we share the native area i.e. Lalamusa.I am ur regular reader n your column “Audateen” was superb.It was an eye opner for many people who run after beauty where as it becomes ugliness when we come across the real personalty inside that beauty.The real beaty is the innerself of a person which we normally don’t see.Most of the Love Marriages end only because of this fact n broken homes n families are becoming very common in our families.Actually we are heading
towards destruction as a society.People must follow good examples like u have given through ur column.We usually see outerself of a person but we don’t look into a person.We are inpired by outer personalty.This habbit of our has damaged us a lot as a nation as we couldn’t find our destination as a nation in more than sixty years.We could not have real democracy,good governance n peace in our country because we always chose wrong persons 4 the right thing where as we had to chose right persons 4 right thing