She had been calling for the last two days. She said that she had come from Karachi just to see me and that the meeting was very necessary. I finally agreed.
She was beautiful — like a perfect white marble Greek sculpture. And she was the most intelligent lady I have ever met. She had manners and she had read thousands of books. I was impressed. But as she disclosed her profession, I felt ashamed. However, she seemed not to care. She only wanted me to write my column on her life. A column to help other young girls of this country and their parents.
She belonged to a lower-middle class family of Karachi. Her family had descended from the Pathans, Kashmiris and Awans and she was an attractive and pretty girl. She was educated in good institutions and obtained an MBA from a reputed business college of Karachi, after which she began an internship in a bank.
A young man met her while she was working there. She said he was handsome, had a foreign degree and was rich. He lived alone in a large house in Defence, travelled in a car worth millions and his monthly credit card bill was between Rs200-300,000. She was impressed by his personality, wealth and lifestyle and soon they became close friends.
The man started spending a lot of money on her. This continued for two months. And then one day he gave her a CD that contained ‘horrible’ scenes of the two. She was shocked. The man told her that someone had shot their film and was now blackmailing him.
In a week’s time a third character appeared on the scene. He told her that she had been trapped by a gang — that the young man she had met and liked was part of the gang and that there was now no escape. She was offered ‘work’ in the profession she is currently involved in. She says she tried whatever she could to get out of it but in vain. Her parents have been told that she works in a large firm, from where she gets a salary every month.
She said that the gang was like a mafia with its headquarters in Karachi and young male and female ‘agents’ in many cities. They get beautiful girl agents admitted to colleges who make friends with pretty girls, take them to parties and introduce them to handsome boys who then trap the girls and make movies. Their agents are also active in banks, travel agencies and shopping plazas.
After I heard her story, I told her I would write my column on her. I came out to say bye to her and a seven-series BMW was waiting for her. I recognised the driver — he is the chauffeur of a VVIP.
Published in The Express Tribune, September 25th, 2010.
sir is ka urdu version bhi parha. bohut achi tarah ap nay is society k aik important aspect par roshni dali.I hope parents aur khaas tor par aj kal ki larkion ko koi nasehat ho jaye is say.
hi sir
24 sep we attend ur session in garden town topis “Love n spirituality”.
this is a informative session we liked that… so when your next session will be there plz also inform me..
thanx
Most likely a fake story again 🙂
society may aysay log waqai bhut khatarnak hain . hun ko waqai apnay irdgid nigah rakhni chahyeh
So bad…
javaid ch. sb pls pls pls ye story ap ko live program me sunani chahiai
may be kisi ka bhala ho jai ga
i hope u listen me………….
Sir, It is a sad story but i think after read it some people may got precautions.
why ppl get involved in that type of stuff ,while knowing that this iz nt acceptable in islam ???
Sir …. Very sad Story .Really shamefull for ours society!!!!!!!
Ahh dear ……The Lady in the story is very respectable who showed the mirror to us …… ” Gund of our Society” is so vast , you and me only can’t clean it…….. Only Inqalab and Only Inqalab but ” Khuda nein aaj tak us qoum ki halat nahin badli Na ho jis ko khayal aap apni halat ke badalney ka ” …… We are very weak from belly, we can’t afford thirst and hunger, so we can do every thing for our taste of mouth , we can’t put stones on our belly for few days for the brighter future. We don’t know all is well if ends well , we want to talk about only today’s prosperity not of future.
The problems of working women in our society are very regrettable.
AOa
when girl come out of her home for the first time ,her journey to tabaaahhhi starts.
Very bad.
Nice to read you again after a long time. I googled you and found your columns.
The picture of the society of Islamic Republic of Pakistan, is really horrible and it seems its going on and I dont see and stop, I dont know how long it will take to come back this society on the right and normal track. couple days before somehow accedently saw a horroble movei of a woman politition. It hurt a lot. I dont know this woman in the politics but her last name seemed kind a famous. I googled her, she seems in power now. Well regardless who she is and to who she belongs, but in the movies from the sounds of men, they were govt officials, they were torturing her in a saxual way. That was clearly rap by the officials. I dont understan why everyone in Pakistan is going towards the different extremes. If we see the elements who consider themselves suprem and kills innocent people, they use Islam and justify the Islam in their personal way and knowledge which does not make any sense. On the other hand a groupe of people kill two young boys in the gethering in presense of police and police does not bother to stop this illegle and and immoral, un Islamic action and let those kids be murdered which distroy the image of Pakistan in the world. And then we see this kind of social diseases like you mentioned in your column. Now I am thinking do we need Pakistan anymore and if yes for what…????????
Assalam Alaikum to all,
The one and only reason, because we are going far and far from ISLAM and Quran!
May Allah give us Taufiqe to be a good Muslim.. Aameen.
Very shocking and horrible but this is dilemma of modern education that they do not teach girls and boys what is morality and what is islam says about it in the name of education we are breeding moral less and direction less people who are trap in any shatanic net very easily
all of you…
Quran main ORAT ko parde ka panband kiya giya haye….am i right???? qu????
hamri society main jis orat ne 2 lfz taleem ke hasel kr liye os ne hi apney HAYA KI CHADAR otar kr apne hi PEROO main rond diya haye or rondati chali ja rehi haye. Bari Bari digriyan tu le li magr KIRDAR ki Mazbooti na hovi .AZADI-E-NISWAA ke naam pe hamri society main ek aag lagi hovi haye….JAHIL TU JAHIL haye OSEY ELIM HII NAHI….magr hamari society main ziada tar educated log orat ko es BE-PARDAGI OR BE-HAYAI ki traf dhakeltey ja rehe hain or ye sab NAM NIHAD TAREEK ka naam pe ho raha haye.
ISLAM OR QURAN main orat ko chand bandashoo main esliye paband kiya giya haye quke agr society main charoo tarf be-hayi ki aag ho tu ye masoom (orat)es se bach jaye. jis trha mard main QODRAT ne power,khodsari ya be-hayai rekh di haye tu doori traf ORAT main otni hi masoomiyat or pakizagi rkh di haye.
can help anyone of my question?
what meaning of EDUCATED OR UNEDUCATED (TALEEM YAFTA OR JAHIL)
Sir Yeh Bhot Achi Bat Hai K Ap Hum Sab Ki Islaha Kar rahey hain plzzzzzzz ISI TARAHA KARTEY RAHA KARAIN ALLAH AP KO IZAT DEY
Dear Ch. Sahib
Thanx for such an eye opening agenda that is out there to ruin our youth.
However in the last line you have mentioned of the driver of a very important man. Kindly be brave enough to name him. We now either he is the head of such an organization or he had called this exotic lady for his personal amusement.
I am hiding my info as i know the security agencies are not at all capable to defend or provide security for me and my family.
And this organizations major clients well you just mentioned of them. Kindly tell his name too
In this case the title should be: MODERN WOMAN NEEDS LEGAL PROTACTION FOR FORNICATION
This is not something new, it has been going on from long time… she is brave enough to come forward and he is brave enough to write it down…
This story is thought provoking, and instigates many questions, as well. Why to make parents job more difficult to “monitor their daughter’s girl friends?” What about to use her own brains once in her life being a modern woman?
What good that MBA School was? They could not even teach her the basic rule of Modern Commercial World. “DO NOT DELIVER YOUR GOODS BEFORE THE PRICE IS PAID.” In her case the price was marriage.
Her counterpart American or European women would not even bother with such stupid movie, they will probably start making their own and make more money… that is the culture she in love with, so she got what she wanted… he got what he wanted and mafioso got what they wanted. They were all suppose to be happy, but it is not the case… she still is crying and I feel sorry for her and for all her counterpart Pakistani women as well.
That is one of the many reasons Islam is the best system of life. Quran and Sunnah have answer to all our questions and helps us put order in our chaotic life. There are so many ayats in Quran which help us to make our life easy, there are Hadith as well, which give us the guide line, how and who one should select as one’s husband or wife. Quran and Sunnah give us the freedom of education and the freedom to select our future mate as well. Islam gives us a guide line to follow to Please ALLAH Subhanhu wa ta’alla to lead Pure life as Muslim husband and wife, to keep Muslim society free of such misfortunes as we have witnessed in this case.
hamza gave great comment ..
javeed chuadhry always writes great things…. keep it up
God bless you.
we can escape this thing only by acting upon the rules and laws of islam.
islam teaches us that only man has to earn money. why our modern woman to go earn money..
when woman goes out of her house she is traped in such things..
it is better for all to be at there home..
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Sir,
you are a Blessing to our Society, please take out some time for Karachi fans, and followers, and please keep a interactive lecture,
Salams, Yasin
excellent sir…..
Although its a very informative article, I would not have any sympathy for this lady as the most of you, who have commented.
Lifestyle is not by birth but is something which one chooses with age. What good is all that education and moral what parents teach, if one can not make the decision of choosing good friends and passing on the evil ones.
Lady, you already lost 99% of your dignity while agreeing to be with a guy in such a manner that be a video or not a video, you already chose what was more important for you.
If you were that God-fearing in the first place you would never have ended up with what you are dealing with now.
Oh and by the way …. you can always make a U-turn…